Sex is Awkward – let’s embrace it!

Raf and Jespa take you on a journey through the awkwardness of meeting each other with our bodies with all their differences and our assumptions about what that means for our sexual encounters. We will talk, play and experiment with our assumptions and ignorances, guided by our shared curiosity.

This is an invitation for all bodies to drop your guard (and shame), to come and explore your body from a queer perspective.

This two-day workshop is based on somatic and creative methods influenced by Sexological Bodywork, kink, and performance. It will include potential nudity, touch and a lot of laughter.

Raf (they) is a white, British, transmasc non-binary queer, an educator, facilitator and coach in the areas of sex, relationships, BDSM and health in Berlin and London. Raf also facilitates regular groups in Berlin, including on the themes of death and queer ageing as well as practical, kink-related workshops.

Jespa (he/they) experiences the world from a white, neuro-spicy, mostly able bodied and gay, trans-masc perspective. He works as a Curiosity Coach around Sexuality and Somatics and as a Performance Artist, facilitating work/playshops and developing creative rituals on connection, communication and sexual energy.

General Information

● This format is for all queer LGBTQIA+ people who want to experience touch in a consensual, supportive atmosphere.● Please pay attention to personal hygiene.

● You should be relatively relaxed about nudity. This event is sensual and may include genital touching, but it is not about sex.

● The event will be in English and/or German depending on participant needs.

● This event is also available at a discounted member rate – but is not part of the free monthly member events.

● Discounted access available upon written request to events@wearevillage.org