Skin-to-Skin

What is the first thing another person’s skin tells us?
Our skin is often the first physical contact we have with another person — whether family, a friend, a lover, or a stranger. In this lab, we’ll focus on the sensations of our skin in giving and receiving touch with other queer men. We’ll explore qualities and intentions of skin-to-skin touch, and notice what arises in our experience: feelings, memories, desires, pure sensations, ideas…
Nudity is welcome, as is staying clothed — but skin-to-skin contact is the main exploration. Our session will be framed with group agreements around consent, listening, and giving space to each other for trying things and checking in.

What to expect
• Partner exercises in giving and receiving skin-to-skin touch, exploring different qualities: weight, pace, texture, intention
• Space to notice what arises — sensations, emotions, or simply presence — and to share if you want
• Group agreements around consent throughout, so you can try things and check in as you go
• Nudity is welcome, as is staying clothed. The workshop does not include genital touch.
• You will be partnered with different participants. All practices are optional.

Photo: Víctor Luque Cerezo

Jorge De Hoyos (he) is a contemporary dancer, performer and choreographer from Southern California, based in Berlin since 2012. He recently completed a Masters study called Solo/Dance/Authorship through the University of Art Berlin. He’s currently retaking a Permaculture Design Certification course after the one he did in San Francisco 10 years ago. He started training Kung Fu and Tai Chi at the end of 2020 and it’s revolutionizing his approach to dancing and grounding. www.jorgedehoyos.com

What is Sensual Touch Lab Series for GBTQ+ Men*?
Sensual Touch Lab Series for GBTQ+ Men* is a monthly workshop where we aim to create a space for sensual closeness and playful encounters.
Embodied, somatic experiences that appreciate our full-bodied nature. Using sensuality as an approach to explore new ways of dealing with our own fears or patterns related to nudity, intimacy, and touch. We invite you to explore, communicate, and possibly expand your personal boundaries within a framework of mutual respect and consent. This opens up the opportunity to experience the power of touch, sensation, and non-verbal interpersonal connection.
Each event will be a guided process, which will have a special touch depending on the theme and background of the facilitator*, whether it be bodywork and touch, somatics and intimacy, or something else. These short workshops may include nudity, partner exercises or close physical interactions.

Benefits:
• Creates meaningful connections within the GBTQ+ community through collective experiences
• Combats feelings of isolation and loneliness
• Promotes self-love and acceptance of one’s body and identity
• Provides a safe, judgement-free space to explore personal boundaries
• Contributes to overall well-being and supports the ability to build lasting relationships
• Can serve as a healthy coping mechanism and reduce the risk of substance abuse

General Information
• This format is for all queer men* / queer masculinities interested in experiencing touch in a safe(r) setting. (See FAQ)
• Please pay attention to personal hygiene.
• Bring a sheet and towel to cover cushions, mats, or massage tables.
• This event will be in German and/or English depending on participant needs.
• This event is also available at a reduced member price – but not part of the two-free-monthly-events benefit.
• Concession tickets upon written request to events@wearevillage.org.